I saw Revolutionary Road this past Saturday and let me tell you – that was one of the best movies I’ve seen. That’s not to say that it was happy and left me with a warm feeling in my heart. Quite the opposite, actually. The story was tragic and heartbreaking. It was some of the finest acting I’ve seen come out of Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio. And Sam Mendes is a directing God. It has the same quiet intensity that American Beauty possessed. He directs in a style that is slow-moving and it builds without you even realizing it. The movie had a claustrophobic feel that totally worked for the storyline.
The Hubby and I had “the talk” beforehand. Are you happy with your life? Do you think Bugaboo and I have held you back in any way? Are you satisfied with your choices? Luckily, the movie did not have the effect I thought it would. I thought I wouldn’t be able to go to sleep because I’d be thinking about how I’m not fulfilling my dreams. In fact, I realized that I am fulfilling my dreams. I’m with a very supportive husband who loves me completely, I have a little girl who makes me smile every day, and I live in a great area and have great friends. I have a full time job, but have the freedom to fulfill my creative side. I don’t feel stifled at all. However, these people absolutely broke my heart because there was no doubt that they were good people, but they got caught up in the “supposed to’s” and didn’t pay enough attention to how it was killing the other person. The warning signs were spread throughout the movie and you knew what it would come to in the end. No one can play regret like DiCaprio. And no one can play utter depression like Winslet. The movie is brilliant, but not one you’ll see a million times. It’s like saying you “enjoyed” Schindler’s List. You can’t “enjoy” that movie. You can respect it and it’s place in cinematic history, but I don’t think you’ll be watching it on repeat. Same goes for Road. It makes you realize that being HEARD in a marriage is probably the most important thing. Go out and see this immediately.